The Bildad the Shuhite replied to Job…
Job 8:1
When receiving “helpful” confrontations.
- First, it’s important to examine the person’s motive by asking, “Does this person want to help, or harm me?” Understanding a person’s motive will go a long way in determining the validity of their words. Bildad obvious cared about Job or he wouldn’t have stood with him for a week without uttering a word.
- Next, reflect on the words spoken and ask, “Is there any truth in what was said?” Even words that come across harsh should be evaluated. Our key verse begins with the phrase “Such is the destiny of all who forget God.” What is the destiny or the path of those who forget God? Like a papyrus reed perishes without water, and a flower cut before maturity fades away, those who forget God will also suffer the same withering. These facts are true.
- The last step is two-fold and requires the corrective work of the Holy Spirit. “Lord, there is no veracity in the argument, please help me move on, and not hold grudge against her,” or “Lord, Your Spirit has confirmed the argument is valid, guide me to work through this truth in my life.” Even though it isn’t fun, honestly facing truth is healthy and develop our character to reflect Christ.
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This was true then, and is still true now.
He does great things too marvelous to understand. He performs countless miracles.
Job 9:10
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Ask Holy Spirit to help me process “helpful” feedback.
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