RTW 2023

I am writing to Philemon, our beloved co-worker,  and to our sister Apphia, and to our fellow soldier Archippus, and to the church that meets in your house.

‍Philemon 1:1a-2

“No part of the New Testament more clearly demonstrates integrated Christian thinking and living. It offers a blend, utterly characteristic of Paul, of love, wisdom, humour, gentleness, tact, and above all Christian and human maturity.” – N.T. Wright

Appeal

• An earnest or urgent request, entreaty, or supplication.

A loving appeal

• Affirm how you feel about the person
  (Even if you don’t think highly of the person ask God to give you something affirming to say)
  I always thank my God when I pray for you, Philemon.
  Philemon 1:4 (See also verses 5-7)
• Start with kind and soft words.
  A gentle answer deflects anger, but harsh words make tempers flare.
  Proverbs 15:1
• Calmly go over the details of the situation
  There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.
  Proverbs 12:18 (ESV)
• Offer possible solutions
  See Philemon 1:12-14

When making an appeal, be prepared for it to be rejected.

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And to our sister Apphia, and to our fellow soldier Archippus, and to the church that meets in your house.
Philemon 1:2

It is likely Apphia was Philemon’s wife and Archippus was his son.

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Appeal gently and rightly, with love.

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